I'm Tired of the Homework Hassle

"I'm so tired of the homework hassle.  I finally gave up and told my son to just stay in his room for an hour.  I don't want to help him with homework any more, and I don't want to fight him about doing it.  Now he's a mess because he's not ready for finals.  When he's stressed, my life is crazy miserable."

Haven't we all felt this way!  We probably reached this point many times as students ourselves.  A version of this quote preys on every parent's mind.  Let me try to uncork it for you:

1. I agree.  I'm a teacher, and I don't like the homework hassle.  I resent that a teacher has the power to determine how I spend my free time with my children.  
2. Homework is a fact of life.  It will continue whether or not you approve and whether or not you help with it.
3. Homework doesn't have to be punitive, and it can be fun.
4. Studying with friends sends important messages.  Don't isolate your children.  Let them study with friends.  Making homework social gets the homework done with less hassle and sends a message that peers do homework, too.
5. When they study with friends, you can share the work with other parents. 
6. You have homework, too.  When your children moan about doing homework, remind them that after they finish school, everything is homework.  If you help them with their homework, they must help you with yours. 
7. Remember that healthy snacks are part of the homework process.  You'll be surprised at how much easier homework is with food.

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"In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun.  You find the fun and - SNAP - the job's a game."  Mary Poppins by Pamela Lyndon Travers

Pass On Your Priorities . Use "Parent Power"

I said an earthly good-bye to a dear friend and professional mentor last week.  Since then, I have spent much time reflecting on what is truly important in life and asking myself if I am living and sharing what I truly believe.  

Dr. Kogee Thomas was a rare and amazing person from so many perspectives.  One of her greatest sources of pride was her education.

More than 60% of US high school students go to college.  Only 17% of American Indians go.  Kogee went.

Approximately 28% of American students complete college.  Only 13% of American Indian students do so.  Kogee was one of the 13%.

In 2017, only 109 American Indian students earned a PhD.  That's .19% of the 54,664 PhD's awarded that year by American colleges and universities.  Kogee is one of the 109. 

• Kogee truly believed that everyone should have a quality education.
• She took time to connect with friends.
• She always had a new joke.
• She believed that life is bigger than we are and that we should invest in eternity while we are here.  That included protecting the earth for future generations and preparing ourselves for the afterlife.  
• She had a deep faith.  She is one of the few that manage to connect head and heart.

I am lucky that she was my mentor. I am blessed that she called me friend.

Kogee believed that parents have great power in the educational system...and that they should use it.  

Listen to her interview, "Parent Power," on our YouTube channel.

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Parent Power

I've been reflecting especially this last week.  I live a blessed life.  I have a deep faith.  I am learning, now, better ways to pass on my values and live my beliefs.

What about you?

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http://blog.nativepartnership.org/graduation-rates-american-indian-education/

https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2008/nativetrends/highlights.asp

https://ncses.nsf.gov/pubs/nsf19301/data