When we designed the SCORE program, we “spoon fed” our students. We gave, and they received. Their grades improved and they gained confidence.
Then they started to drop out of our program.
Yes, they appreciated us, liked us, and were grateful…but they moved on.
Confused, we went back to the drawing board and interviewed our students. We discovered that once they gained skills, they needed to “pay it forward.” The "willing and able" need responsibility. When they learned to use a spoon, they could feed themselves and another.
One of my friends says, "If we parents do our job well, they grow up and leave home...and we cry."
It is simply the fulfillment of an old Bible proverb: “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” (Acts 20:35).
We re-designed SCORE with the philosophy "Everyone gives, and everyone receives." It works!
So…teach your children to give…
For Valentines Day, have them:
- Give a word of encouragement to every student in their class.
- Give help to someone who is struggling.
- Give attention to someone who is neglected (hospitals, convalescent homes, retirement centers)
- Give a hug to someone who needs one (hint: We need 10 hugs a day just to survive!)
- Give a good used toy to a child in need
There was a time in my life when I needed help…a lot of help. Anyone who doesn’t believe it is more blessed to give than to receive has never been needy. I much prefer helping someone else than needing help myself. But, in life, we all play both roles periodically.
Lockett Learning specializes in helping high-risk youth. One of my "ah-ha" moments was to realize that in life, everyone is high-risk. It's not whether, it's when. More importantly, how will we help them through when they need it.